It's Not Okay: Turning Heartbreak into Happily Never After

Andi Dorfman

May 2016 · Sold by Simon and Schuster

About this ebook

Discover the New York Times bestselling book that Bachelor fans—and even Bachelor stars—can’t stop talking about! Beloved fan favorite Andi Dorfman tells the unvarnished truth about her engagement, her public breakup, and why looking for love on television is no paradise.

Millions of people tuned in to see Bachelorette star Andi Dorfman get engaged to her chosen suitor. But when the cameras turned off and the dust (or rose petals) had settled, Andi realized she was engaged to a man she’d known for barely two months. And as they endeavored to return to normal life, they discovered that happily ever after wasn’t as easy as it looked. In her own words, Andi delivers “plenty of surprise (and some disturbing) details” (Cosmopolitan) as she tells the whole truth about her entry into the exclusive Bachelor family, her experience on the show, and finally, what happened to make it all fall apart.

But this is much more than the diary of a very public breakup—Andi divulges her story along with some no-nonsense, straight-talking advice to other women dealing with their own romantic issues. In It’s Not Okay, Andi is the best friend we all wish we had, telling us the good, the bad, and the ugly to inspire us to always be true to ourselves and remember breakups may be hard, but it’s always going to be okay.

Ratings and reviews

Andi is an inspiration, and a very strong woman! While she was on reality TV, she tells such an amazing honest and true story of how reality TV is not perfect like we think. She left her job as an attorney to find love, was heart broken, and instead of dwelling on it all, she picks of the pieces and puts one foot in front of thr other...not letting her broken heart be the demise of her life. #26 really screwed that one up...Andi is about as strong and independent of a woman as you could get!!

Andi did a wonderful job at laying out her journey to find that happiness she longed for after a horrible breakup. I wish she would keep writing, her writing is fantastic and sucks you right in. I will definitely re-read this book!

I haven't read this book yet. But as I'm reading the comments. I come across some that dislike the book or should I say Andi. If you didn't like the book why even finish reading it. I don't know anything about Andi but I already love her... She is brave to even write about her personal life.

About the author

Before she was a New York Times bestselling author, Andi Dorfman starred on Season 10 of The Bachelorette and was a finalist on Season 18 of The Bachelor. She is currently living—and dating—in New York City. She is the author of It’s Not Okay and Single State of Mind.