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Attract Hotter Guys With Irresistible Body LanguageAre you subconsciously sending “go away” signals to cute guys? Learn how gestures, postures, stances, and handshakes make you more approachable with the first body language guide for gay men.
Attract Hotter Guys is Book #2 of 3 Books In The Gay Dating Series.
Look In The Mirror. Your Body Language Is All WrongCan I tell you a story? Going out to bars and parties destroyed my self-esteem. I felt like a complete loser. How many times can you come home without meeting anybody before you feel like there’s something wrong with you?
Seriously, have you ever come home from parties, events, clubs and bars more depressed than when you left? If you’re like me, you’ve tried everything. Different bars, different people, different events. You changed your look, your clothes, your style. The result? Nada, nothing, zip. You may as well go straight. Well one day, I met a body language expert. He told me something that would change my life:
Half the Guys You Like Are Turned Off By Your Body LanguageYou know what my reaction was? “Bullsh_t.” I mean, come on! Body language? I’m not meeting good looking guys because of my body language? Puh-leeze.
Stay with me because this is where it gets interesting. The body language expert (a psychologist, actually) took me under his wing and coached me in the art of using body language to attract the kind of guys I liked. He wanted a guinea pig–ME–to prove that the sexual body language principles that work for straight couples could, with some adaptation, work for gay men. Yes, body language for gay men. Here’s a partial list of what he changed:
* The way I shook hands.
* The way I leaned in (or away).
* How I pointed with my feet (yes, feet, long story).
* The angle that I talked to people.
* The direction that I approached guys I wanted to meet.
* The way I looked at guys I was interested in.
* The way I used my body to catch their eye.
* The way I used my hands to gesture.
The result? In less than an hour, two good-looking guys struck up a conversation with me! After that profound revelation I was determined to make this knowledge available to all other gay guys who couldn't figure out why their love life sucked. So here it is and here's what you'll learn:
MAKE YOURSELF MORE APPROACHABLE
1. Wear certain types of shirts and pants. Research shows men are far more attracted to clothes that… Well, it’s on Page 23.
2. Wear a certain type of jewelry and accessories. I’ll give away one of the secrets right now: Shoes! Find out why on Page 25.
3. Open your “Territory Line.” I show you how to do it on Page 26.
4. Create “Invisible Hallways” between the two of you by using your hands and arms while you’re talking to friends.
5. Point with your hands, your feet and your head. This is a little known secret among communication researchers. Pointing is an “invitation” (it also reveals how he feels about you). Where should you point and how? It’s all on Page 28.
6. Use Inviting Postures. Whether you’re standing, sitting (even slouching), there are do’s and don’ts to show your interest. They’re all on Page 29.
7. Make it easy for him to touch you. See Page 30 for inventive things you can wear or do to make touching you irresistible. They work like a charm!
Fed Up With Feeling Invisible At Bars & Parties?Not meeting the type of guys you like? Frustrated you always have to make the first move? Use this guide to change your body language and watch how many more attractive guys approach you.
Attract Hotter Guys is Book #2 of 3 Books In The Gay Dating Series.
Look In The Mirror. Your Body Language Is All WrongCan I tell you a story? Going out to bars and parties destroyed my self-esteem. I felt like a complete loser. How many times can you come home without meeting anybody before you feel like there’s something wrong with you?
Seriously, have you ever come home from parties, events, clubs and bars more depressed than when you left? If you’re like me, you’ve tried everything. Different bars, different people, different events. You changed your look, your clothes, your style. The result? Nada, nothing, zip. You may as well go straight. Well one day, I met a body language expert. He told me something that would change my life:
Half the Guys You Like Are Turned Off By Your Body LanguageYou know what my reaction was? “Bullsh_t.” I mean, come on! Body language? I’m not meeting good looking guys because of my body language? Puh-leeze.
Stay with me because this is where it gets interesting. The body language expert (a psychologist, actually) took me under his wing and coached me in the art of using body language to attract the kind of guys I liked. He wanted a guinea pig–ME–to prove that the sexual body language principles that work for straight couples could, with some adaptation, work for gay men. Yes, body language for gay men. Here’s a partial list of what he changed:
* The way I shook hands.
* The way I leaned in (or away).
* How I pointed with my feet (yes, feet, long story).
* The angle that I talked to people.
* The direction that I approached guys I wanted to meet.
* The way I looked at guys I was interested in.
* The way I used my body to catch their eye.
* The way I used my hands to gesture.
The result? In less than an hour, two good-looking guys struck up a conversation with me! After that profound revelation I was determined to make this knowledge available to all other gay guys who couldn't figure out why their love life sucked. So here it is and here's what you'll learn:
MAKE YOURSELF MORE APPROACHABLE
1. Wear certain types of shirts and pants. Research shows men are far more attracted to clothes that… Well, it’s on Page 23.
2. Wear a certain type of jewelry and accessories. I’ll give away one of the secrets right now: Shoes! Find out why on Page 25.
3. Open your “Territory Line.” I show you how to do it on Page 26.
4. Create “Invisible Hallways” between the two of you by using your hands and arms while you’re talking to friends.
5. Point with your hands, your feet and your head. This is a little known secret among communication researchers. Pointing is an “invitation” (it also reveals how he feels about you). Where should you point and how? It’s all on Page 28.
6. Use Inviting Postures. Whether you’re standing, sitting (even slouching), there are do’s and don’ts to show your interest. They’re all on Page 29.
7. Make it easy for him to touch you. See Page 30 for inventive things you can wear or do to make touching you irresistible. They work like a charm!
Fed Up With Feeling Invisible At Bars & Parties?Not meeting the type of guys you like? Frustrated you always have to make the first move? Use this guide to change your body language and watch how many more attractive guys approach you.
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