His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage

Willard F. Jr. Harley

Feb 2011 · Revell

About this ebook

In the classic bestseller His Needs, Her Needs, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouses. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to extramarital affairs.

This revised and expanded edition has been updated throughout and includes new writing that highlights the special significance of intimate emotional needs in marriage.

Ratings and reviews

This book is great for people just starting a relationship. What you find out is whether or not you are spending time on the wrong person or the right person. The right person should be constantly focusing on the things that are in your top five needs and you should be to their's. I realized that my second wife was more than willing to focus on my needs as I was to hers. I knew I had the one God had made for me. Don't believe it's going to be easy, but this book makes it so much easier.

This book provides amazing advice to couples. We found it beneficial to our marriage. The key is letting go of selfishness and focusing on the needs of your spouse, which is in the spirit of Philippians 2:3-4. It also provides guidance on not letting your needs be filled outside of your marriage. Simply amazing! I would also recommend the companion audio book to use while working out or driving...

Preparing for marriage, and I can't remember a book on this subject having more practical knowledge and common sense...since the Holy Bible. Highly recommend this book for couples beginning their journey together; and noooooooo less for couples working to keep their marriages healthy and strong. Elated!

About the author

Willard F. Harley, Jr. is a nationally acclaimed clinical psychologist, marriage counselor, and bestselling author. His popular website,
www.marriagebuilders.com, offers practical solutions to almost any marital problem. Dr. Harley and his wife, Joyce, host a three-hour live radio call-in show called Marriage Builders Radio and Marriage Builders Weekends across the country. They live in Minnesota.