Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship

Shari Y. Manning

Aug 2011 · Guilford Press

About this ebook

People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) can be intensely caring, warm, smart, and funny—but their behavior often drives away those closest to them. If you're struggling in a tumultuous relationship with someone with BPD, this is the book for you. Dr. Shari Manning helps you understand why your spouse, family member, or friend has such out-of-control emotions—and how to change the way you can respond. Learn to use simple yet powerful strategies that can defuse crises, establish better boundaries, and radically transform your relationship. Empathic, hopeful, and science based, this is the first book for family and friends grounded in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), the most effective treatment for BPD.

Ratings and reviews

Talk about behavioral problems but not how you should handle very little answers to the different clients situation.Good documentation of the behavioral patterns.Do there relationship have love

As someone who has BPD I'm reading this book and it's amazing how accurate she is. I definitely recommend this book to anyone who wants to have a healthy relationship with someone BPD.

Nice compendium to the more medical/theoretical books

About the author

Shari Y. Manning, PhD, is a clinician in private practice and the former President/CEO of Behavioral Tech and Behavioral Tech Research, the organizations founded by Marsha M. Linehan to provide training in DBT. Dr. Manning has focused on the treatment of people with BPD since 1993. She lives in Columbia, South Carolina.