Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kinky Sex for Women

Melinda Holmes

Aug 2014 · Sensual Science Publishing

About this ebook

 Do you feel that your relationship has lost a certain interest, for you or your partner ... or both? 
Is there a power imbalance in your relationship that makes you both feel 'out of kilter'? Do you long for the erotic and sexual excitement that your relationship once had? Are you a little confused as to just what BDSM is?

Or are you just looking for something entirely NEW in your love life?
Whatever your situation, BDSM is a culture which can entirely rejuvenate an existing relationship or establish a new one, setting up power balances that leave both partners with the secure feeling that they mesh more completely than ever before - complementing, not clashing!

Melinda Holmes, a renowned author of erotic fiction and non-fiction, has written a follow up to her bestseller 50 Shades of Better Sex, especially for women and relationship partners who would like to learn more about the advantages of putting the power practices of BDSM in their love life - and not a whip or chain in sight!

Put away those popular misconceptions about BDSM, and learn how an equitable partnership uses BDSM to honor both partners, and cement more firmly the cornerstones of your love relationship in Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kinky Sex for Women.

In Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kinky Sex for Women, the guide to a stronger, more loving relationship, you'll:

• Learn what the three cornerstones of a loving relationship are - and how to make them stronger than ever.
• Find out what BDSM is, your place in it, and why it may be nothing like what is pictured in popular culture - unless YOU want it to be.
• Discover why you may unconsciously desire to be submissive, and the pleasures in that role.
• Become aware of dominance over a submissive as an awesome responsibility, and a hallmark of love and respect.
• See favorite games in BDSM play that cost little and feel SO good!
• Learn precautions for beginners - what you DON'T know CAN hurt you!

Ratings and reviews

Thank you, thank you for explaining the introduction to the scene. The importance of not going out alone. Everyone, please check out your local scene through munches, socials and activity based events! Do NOT go to anyone's house, dungeon alone. If the person does not want to go to these events? Wait, be patient and find another!

It has definitely helped me be more confident in how to pursue bdsm with my partner but a lil longer content would be even more awesome (like including more examples and scenarios or even personal experiences).

Best read and turned everything around and opened myeyes up to what she really wanted. Loved it.

About the author

 Melinda Holmes is the author of numerous award winning fiction and non-fiction erotic stories and books. She writes about the relationship issues of sex and love that tantalize and excite men and women throughout the English speaking world. Her fans number in the millions, and can be found in all levels of society. Her breezy, light and easy take on the pleasurable battles of sexual combat charm thousands of readers daily.

A 1990s graduate of a religious college in the State of California in the United States, Holmes has come a long way from her restrictive upbringing to blast apart the strictures and bonds that prevent lovers from reaching their greatest sexual potential. Her writing, both humorous and hot, will leave you laughing even as you find your libido buzzing.

She has made numerous friendships in the erotic entertainment community, as well as intimate relationships with many of the men and women there, giving her unique insight into successful methods of achieving the pleasurable heights that each of us deserves.

Besides the plaudits of her many fans, her achievements in related fields include training in interpersonal relationships, marriage and relationship counseling, the psychology of fetish sex, and many professional writing awards. Her writing displays the insight, wisdom, experience, scholarship and most importantly, the innate sense of fun that make her works hard to put down and an entertainment whirlwind that you'll be telling all of your friends about!