Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1: 49 Must-Know Tips On How To Be The Perfect Dom/Master Your Submissive Will Truly Respect & Admire

Matthew Larocco

Aug 2015 · Guide to Healthy BDSM Book 1 · Enlightened Publishing

About this ebook

Much of what we’ve “heard” about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it’s also a concept that you will find is not “scary.” And even the “pain” that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is.

This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn’t already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they’ve heard about it.

What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want.

Still interested? Good. Now that we know you’re a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub.

In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss:

    - How to think and act like a Dom
    
    - What the slave expects from you
    
    - What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow
    
    - Your motivation and your goals
    
    - How to find out a sub’s taboo
    
    - How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe
    
    - How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you
    
    - And much more...

Ratings and reviews

All of the tips that are mentioned in this book are obvious and you will more than likely find nothing new or helpful. It could have been simplified into a breif article. You can find something like this online for free.

The world of BDSM is becoming less taboo. Perhaps you’re ready to experience this for yourself. Perhaps you already know that you’re not the submissive type. There’s more to starting this lifestyle though than just grabbing a set of cuffs and tying up your first willing participant. This book is your first steps into the role of being a Dominant. The author does well to describe different roles and training styles while encouraging building trust, something essential in a D/s relationship. If you are new to the lifestyle or not sure that this is the right step for you and your existing partner (or future partner) than this is the ideal book to start with.

Great Book, definitely recommend if you're learning to become a Dom or just want to learn about BDSM and how it works and the history.👍